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Membership is free

Friendship and dating across generations.

A free site for gay and bisexual men aged 18+ to meet older and younger men. Find friendship, a date, or someone to share your interests.

  • Adults 18+ only
  • No payment details
  • Go at your own pace
Example invitationHow it could look
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Saturday in Soho

One-to-one · London

“Anyone up for coffee and a walk through the National Gallery? It would be nice to have some company.”
ArtConversationDating
Something to talk aboutStart with a shared interest.
You choose who you chat withMessages start after a connection is accepted.

Friendship.

Dating.

Shared interests.

How it works

Meet someone you want to spend time with.

Share a little about yourself, find an invitation that interests you, and take it from there.

01

Make your profile

Share your interests and what you're looking for, whether that's friendship, dating, or a relationship.

02

Start with an invitation

Suggest coffee, a walk, or a video call. Or respond to someone else's invitation if it sounds like your kind of thing.

03

Chat and make a plan

Once a connection is accepted, you can message each other and agree a time and place if you both want to meet.

Silver Tables

Prefer to meet in a small group?

Silver Tables are hosted get-togethers, such as lunch, a walk, or an online chat. They offer another way to meet people, without making it a date.

  • See the host, activity, and available places
  • Check the details before you join
  • Availability depends on hosts and member interest
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Your privacy

You choose what to share.

You choose which connections can see your private photos and can remove access later. You can also block or report someone if you need to.

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Free to join

Find your kind of company.

We're a small, new community. Who you can meet will depend on who has joined near you. Create a profile and see what's available.

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